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I never had any second thoughts about watching Extraordinary Attorney Woo when I first heard about it. Aside from medical K-dramas, those under the legal genre suit my interest, not only because it pushes me to think and analyze; but it allows me to relive my days as part of the legal profession. 

The show centers on Woo Young Woo (played by Park Eun Bin), a rookie lawyer for the fictional law firm named Hanbada. Despite graduating at the top of her class at Seoul National University and possessing the impressive credentials that make her an ideal lawyer, she faces prejudice from both her colleagues and clients. Despite being a genius lawyer, she is also diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder.

Watching the entirety of this Kdrama not only enabled me to relive the career that I have missed through the various legal matters shown throughout the 16 episodes. It opened my eyes on the plight of people too as some of the scenes focus on socially-relevant issues. In one particular episode, Attorney Woo defended a man prosecuted for abducting middle school students, and the guy would later admit that he did it just so the kids could play and enjoy their childhood even for just a few hours. From the view of someone who once worked as an ESL teacher to Korean students, it spoke resolutely of the reality (of what it is like to be a student in South Korea). Parents take education (and grades for that matter) seriously, to the extent of forgetting that their children also need to cherish their youth once in a while. 

This slice-of-life drama also offered a fresh take on how society and the workplace should deal with and handle situations involving employees and individuals with disabilities and challenges. Next to the slant that Attorney Woo was accepted in Hanbada for her credentials, it is worth noting that  the drama showed how she found a support system through her single dad, Woo Gwang-ho, the colleague Choi Su-yeon, and friends like Dong Geu-ra-mi, and the funny restaurant owner called Mr. Hairy who did not only stayed by her side in every situation but were also there for the protagonist as she navigated through various events in order to live a close to normal life despite having ASD.

I guess the other thing that appealed to the viewers was the romantic facet of the drama. How the bond between Woo Yong-woo and Lee Jun-ho evolved from just colleagues to friends, and eventually as lovers, was one of the reasons why I looked forward to each episode. As a person with a disability myself, I confess that I could somehow relate to the scenes where Young-woo openly expressed her apprehensions about being romantically involved with Jun-ho because of her condition. Those echoed the same thoughts that I've always had for the longest time. But what was more endearing was how Kang Tae-oh's character as Lee jun-ho chose to remain by Young-woo and still pursue her despite the objections of his sibling. Such devotion proved the essence of what real and unconditional love is; and how our flaws will always make us perfect for the heart that is meant to love us. 


But setting kilig factor aside, I can say that Extraordinary Attorney Woo is a slice-of-life drama that I enjoyed watching not just for the legal element, but also for all its heartwarming scenes and nuggets of wisdom. I would recommend this to friends seeking inspiration that will motivate them to be the improved (if not the best) version of themselves especially when life hits and pulls them the lowest.



A few months ago, I came across the book How to be Fine from the Facebook page of a local bookstore. And while I find self-help books a bit daunting, I got intrigued about what I could possibly learn from the book. Such curiosity made me decide to order a copy online.

Written by Jolenta Greenberg and Kristen Meinzer, How to Be Fine narrates their realizations after trying to live by the advice of 50 different self-help books that they have read. It is divided into three chapters that separates the advices that worked, what did not, and another chapter for topics they both wish that more self-help books would write about.

In the first chapter, they discussed 13 things that they both agree to be effective. I enjoyed reading this part because their views on the advices in this chapter are so on point, that I found myself nodding in agreement to what I was seeing. I liked going through the part on the importance of kindness and putting gratitude to practice, because it's a timely topic. Let's all admit that next to retaining good manners, being grateful and kind are two things that are so scarce, and yet those are what our world currently needs.

But if there's going to be a favorite takeaway from that chapter, it would be about how to provide genuine apologies. Contrary to what we always do, an apology means more than just saying "I'm sorry!". In the book, Jolenta Greenberg describes that a genuine apology is made up of four elements:
  1. Acknowledging the wrongdoing;
  2. Explaining the misguided intentions behind the act;
  3. Sharing remorse by communicating what one regret doing; and
  4. Offering a way to repair the damage that was done. 

Now, self-help books tend to be tricky sometimes. The effectiveness of an advice vary from person to person; that's why there is a chapter for the suggestions that did not work. For this one, they tackled their views on subjects such as meditation, going on a diet, and even aiming to have it all
-- and why it isn't applicable to everyone.

But if there's a topic from this chapter that I agree with, it's on the subject of forgiveness. In Kristen Meinzer's words, "pain and anger are natural responses to injuries -- both emotional and physical...and if something truly horrible was done, saying "it's okay" won't make it disappear."

This made me think that it is for such reasons forgiveness should not be imposed on someone. It should not be forced just because it's the "right thing to do" and that people should view forgiveness in the same way as love. It's something that's freely given, and you do it only when you're ready and not because you are pushed or pressured by others or even the society.

I must say that How to be Fine was a well-balanced book as it also included a separate chapter for topics that self-help books would (hopefully) recommend more and we should consider normalizing. The book even included the subject of making friends with our own bodies, and seeing a therapist among those important topics. At this modern time, and given the situation we are in, it's about time that we put an end to the stigma that because one is seeing a shrink, he/she is automatically tagged as mentally ill -- because that is not always the case. And with the current state of our living conditions, isn't it just appropriate that we prioritize our mental well-being?

While self-help books aren't really a fool-proof way to resolve a number of our problems, having read How to be Fine somewhat enlightened me on a number of things. I realized that there's no harm in reading books in such genre once in a while; because at a certain point, it can provide you with an unexpected but valuable piece of advice that can be helpful in navigating through day-to-day life


It's the last day of the month. Next to posting a  life update few weeks ago, I thought of writing a follow up only because we are already done with the second quarter of the year, and today's the last month of June. 

Compared to my previous post, I'll try to keep this short and just let the photos speak on my behalf and tell you how my life has been from month 3 to 6 of 2022.


I was having issues with my blood pressure in the last two weeks of April so I decided to have it checked. While age could be among the factors, the temperature associated with summer was also to blame. After going through tests that all came out normal, I just keep medications handy for me to take only when needed.


A health scare like hypertension caused me to take fitness and exercise seriously. While I don't do hardcore workouts, I always do afternoon walks nowadays as doctors also advise that this counts as an acceptable form of fitness regimen. I do have an app on my phone to track the number of steps that I get to do in a day.
 

Electing a fresh batch of leaders to govern the country was also the highlight of my second quarter. And while the candidate that I voted for may not that be lucky, I don't have any regret with the choice I made -- in the same manner that I don't really give a fuck at people's opinions of my choice, including those who are mocking and making fun of me (to the extent of stalking my Facebook profile just to ridicule it on their comments) for supporting someone who I see to be someone worthy. Haters gonna hate. But there's a reason why the options "turn off commenting", "remove notification", "turn off notifications", and binge-worthy Kdramas were made.


Unexpected meetups and surprise reunions were also a highlight of my last three months. Just like when I saw my former adviser from my elementary days, Ms. Wawet San Felipe while waiting for my takeout order from a fastfood restaurant inside a mall. I don't know if it's just me, but I still get giddy seeing my former teachers (and professors too!). 


I don't limit the use of the word "reunions" to people because I tend to use it on significant places too. Just like what I did when I returned to URS Morong more than a week ago to make that first step in pursuing a meaningful endeavor which I hope will yield the result that I have been praying for.


As I mentioned in this post before, I decided to join a three-month internship program to upskill and acquire some knowledge related to processes involved in the functions of an HR department. Tomorrow marks my last day as an intern.


Speaking of endeavors, these days, I also find myself testing my skills in the kitchen on a number of occasions. Over the past few weeks, I would find myself whipping up a few simple dishes after looking at Google. From simple Singaporean breakfast to this popular Korean side dish, braised marble potatoes that my former officemate Mhea used to cook for us, cooking has been an activity that has been leaving me fulfilled lately. I know you'll say the recipes I'm picking is too easy, but then, isn't it that I need to begin somewhere? And that's what I am doing. Starting from what's easy and training myself from scratch.

So, that sums up the second quarter of my year. Tomorrow's going to be the start of a new month. I just hope that the six remaining months of my year will be productive, interesting, and hopefully, one that's filled of happy plot twists. 




I want to believe that my week has become somewhat productive. I say somewhat simply because the weekend is still a day away. Last Monday, and after giving it some thought for a number of days, I decided to visit the campus of my alma mater in Morong, Rizal  to submit some documents upon the recommendation of two of my friends from college.

Since the pandemic started in 2020, next to becoming conscious with regards to hand hygiene, embarking on certain activities like traveling was something that I have hesitated on doing. Blame it on me being a bit of a hypochondriac, but this health crisis caused me to be a little paranoid about being exposed to the virus when taking public transportation with several people -- to think that I am already fully vaccinated. 

For two years, the four corners of our home has been my so-called "bomb shelter". While there would be times I would leave the house, my travels were limited to short-distance locations (or places that can be reached in an hour or less). And while I no longer find traveling to the busy and polluted streets of Metro Manila to be appealing, I discovered that the exact opposite is what I am feeling as I went to several towns in Rizal and nearby provinces, such as that of Laguna which I visited back in February. Indeed, there's really something  about being in a province that you will appreciate every once in a while. To me I guess, it's the surroundings and the fact that commuting and the traffic isn't traumatizing and exhausting.  


I haven't been to the Morong campus for almost two decades. Save for a very short visit to a friend six years ago while I was preparing for the Civil Service Exam, the last time I was here was in 2003 to watch the intramurals as I was part of the publication team from the Angono campus assigned to cover the different events for the school paper. And while the main building still looks the same, a few things no longer aren't. Gone were the days when this used to be flocked by students who are passing by to go from one college building to another, or by athletes either practicing or preparing for their sepak takraw match during sports competitions. 


After submitting my documents, my friend Jon gave me a quick tour of their office where I met his boss, Dr. Marilou Pantaleon, who is the Director of the Center for Lifelong Learning. My former publication adviser (and Jon's other half), Ma'am Cez arrived together with their daughter (who is also my inaanak), Ciljon just as Jon and I were trying to decide what to get for lunch. We ended up driving to the nearby town of Baras to bond over food and surprisingly, talk about the recently-concluded trial between ex-celebrity couple Johnny Depp and Amber Heard. 


It really is surprising when you think what 20 years can do. Jon's office is busy preparing for the required documents because they will open slots for the LET review and soon, the campus will start to accept aspiring individuals who are planning to be part of the medical profession. While Jon candidly told me to apply, I knew that that's going to involve some discernment on my part; because next to my age, the specialization that I wanted to pursue is so rare and will take a good number of years to complete.

Two decades may have passed but I must admit that nothing beats the nostalgia of walking along a school ground or sitting inside a classroom . A student's "new normal" is so much different nowadays that when Ma'am Cez showed me this room, I seized the chance to have this photo. A reminder that for once, in the midst of a still chaotic period of pandemic and economic constraints, I had the moment to be nothing but an ordinary student again whose only concern then were about grades, being part of campus clubs and graduating (okay, and maybe a bit of college romance in between).

At the end of the day, my trip to a neighboring town proved to be worth it. Next to having accomplished something on my list, the decision to go on an unplanned getaway not only allowed me to meet people (both old and new ones), but to somehow go back to a nostalgic part of my past. It's a must to explore the outside world because it can really aid in making you calmer, more focused and even healthier (in my case, I scored 12 heart points and made 4,700 steps just by going from one department to another). And to simply put the advice that I read from a book's chapter, the outdoors are full of possibilities, and you just need to get out there. There's a huge and joyous world outside a bomb shelter!


If I could let you see my online shopping cart, next to stickers for my bullet journal, the other thing you'll notice that I frequently purchase nowadays would be my favorite item: brain food, or in the simplest word: books! Most titles are written by homegrown authors.

I got my copy of Dear Doctor Joey by Ayris Alcachupas days after Ash Wednesday, which makes this one of those long overdue posts. Anyway, I was enticed to get a copy of this book weeks after it was launched online on Valentine's Day. At that time, I had just finished reading her other book, My BFF's BF. I was prompted to order the second book online to follow the story of two of its characters, Blue and Joey Nikki.

A social serye I encountered from a Facebook page, Dear Doctor Joey chronicles the story of Blue and Joey Nikki post-breakup after being a couple for five years. Despite she's already successful in her career as a pediatrician, Joey Nikki still longs to find answers to the questions surrounding their breakup and why Blue suddenly left her without a trace except for a breakup letter.

Next to its two main characters, the other people who are important in their story are also present in Dear Doctor Joey, as the book is not just focused on romance but on long-term friendships too. Ayris Alcachupas was able to narrate the installment of Joey and Blue's story well. While I confess that I rarely read books by local authors, hers was one of the works that left me engaged and literally up all night for some days. This book revived my wanderlust and made me want to carry out my plan to travel to Cebu, which is a must-visit place on my bucket list. While others might see a 12-chapter book as time-consuming to read, it wasn't the case for me. Reading this book left me entertained and interested, I didn't care if it was way past my bedtime because I was curious to find out what happens one scene after another. In some way, I was just like Joey, searching for many answers. From the reason for the breakup, if Joey gets the closure she needs; the link of the story's villain to Joey's admirer colleague (this is something I consider as one of the book's "plot twists"), to whether or not Blue and Joey Nikki will be entitled to a second chance and a happy ending.

If someone asks me for Wattpad authors with worth-reading stories, this book is something that I will not hesitate to recommend especially for those who are at the point and situation of wanting to let some things go -- because sometimes circumstances have their way of saying things are over yet until Fate intervenes to say so.



   


The past few months have been crazy, making this blog a quiet space. I planned to write this entry two weeks ago, but for some reason, my brain cells weren't cooperating that much; it made me postpone doing any updates.

I am currently part of an internship program at a local real estate marketplace. Despite an unpaid stint, I decided to take the plunge to get some experience. Having been forced to go on a career break due to the pandemic, I knew I should gain some skill than just being idle. For the last two months, logging in to Discord for 2-3 hours during weekdays to do random HR duties have been part of my daily routine. I know you're curious about how do I manage to do it. Well, part of the reasons why I opted to give this internship a try is for me to find out if I can run things on a work-from-home setup. Anyway, I am not alone in the team as I work with other women (most of them are moms) who I get to communicate with remotely because they reside in different provinces in the Philippines. I expect to finish the internship in the first week of July and hopefully receive my certificate of completion around the same month.  

Health-wise, I will not deny that I wasn't 100% in the pink of health months ago. Blame it on some personal and career-related issues I have been dealing with; I experienced episodes of erratic blood pressure that I had to consult a general practitioner. My BP still surges occasionally. But I can manage it now with medicines which I take when needed.  

Career-wise, getting a new job is still a struggle for me. Call it maturity or part of the experience, but I've learned and got used to receiving and shrugging off rejection emails from various HR departments. While there would be nights I'd find myself worrying and filled with uncertainty, I still try and apply for jobs whenever I see one where I think my experience and credentials would fit. With the hope that I will eventually be accepted in that one job that will offer me something better (if not best) and replace that job that I abruptly lost due to the ongoing circumstance.


On the positive side, I decided to explore my creativity further by creating another Instagram account last March. But unlike my personal IG account, The Chinita Reader is my other channel dedicated only to books that I have read or currently reading, regardless of their author or if it's an old book or a recently published one. I'm in the process of trying to finish reading another book I purchased recently and will also appear on that account. 



Between job hunting, pondering about life at the moment, and being a bookworm, I find time to go outside and check out events. I went to SM Center Angono yesterday to check out the exhibit Arte de las Flores. It's been a habit for me to see what's exhibited whenever I drop by the Art Walk, and the current ones on display are worth the visit. 

Should I go MIA again, just try to think I am busy exploring new things and going to places that can be worth writing! And before I forget, we only have around two weeks and half of they year is about to be end. I would love to hear what you've been up to and how the last six months have been for you so far.  Share any life update in the comments. I would love to read them.

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Lee Seon-joo, a supporting character from one of my favorite Korean dramas entitled Her Private Life said in one episode that art is the product of desire. And while I admit that arts (especially visual ones) aren't my cup of tea, I just found myself unexpectedly giving it a shot recently.

I started using bullet planners at the height of the pandemic in 2020 because I just wanted to try it for a change. But for someone who has always been a user of ruled daily planners, shifting to bullet journals entailed a lot of challenges especially for a neophyte like me. I'm a bit obsessive when it comes to writing along straight lines and wide spaces; something which became hard for me to do at first given that next to dates, the pages of a bullet journal (or bujo, as others call it) has nothing else but dots. 

It took a few tries and maybe a few months for me to get used to it. And aside from learning how to use a bulleted system of planning my day-to-day agenda, another thing that fascinated me with bujos are in  those monthly spreads. The pages of a bullet journal tend to become boring especially for those who have never tried using one. I've always been intrigued about how my friend, Beth G., who is a bullet journaling enthusiast, creates her monthly spreads, which she either writes on her blog or posts on her Instagram account. The past few months, I've been spending minutes of my day watching Instagram reels on creating and designing bujo page spreads. And despite the lack of skill in the arts and design department, I ended up giving it a shot.



For someone with limited skill in arts, creating one can be a bit daunting. But just like what I read in one online article, a bujo doesn't need to look too artrsy, or else it will deplete its real purpose. In the case of my bullet journal, while I also have the habit of designing some of its pages, I still keep it to a minimum. Most of its pages are adorned by die cut stickers which I bought from either online sellers or the ones I found at bookstores, and recently from Mr. DIY located in SM Center Angono.

Beth was right when she said that customizing a blank page of a bullet journal can be mentally satisfying. But at the same time, I maintain its purpose when I bought it at the beginning of the year; that its to help me unwind and clear my mind by writing anything and everything in it -- from my daily tasks, errands to what I think of about what's happening around me. 

In the end, I may be a bit lacking with skills to prettify my bullet journal, but then, the contents and notes written in every page still represents the writer, and lover of words that I truly am. 





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